How disability support builds independence and friendship
If you pull up beside Jimmy and Christian at traffic lights, chances are you'll catch them mid-chorus – windows down, music up, belting out We're All in This Together from High School Musical.
"I know every lyric," Jimmy grins. "I study all the songs."
Christian laughs, "He knows more than me."
More than a support worker
Their bond runs deeper than carpool karaoke. Christian is Jimmy's disability support worker, but titles don't quite capture their connection.
"He's like my brother," Jimmy says.
Every second Thursday, they carve out time together. Bowling. Timezone. Movies. Krispy Kremes. Singing like no one's watching.
These aren't just outings – they're building blocks of independence.
Building confidence
"He makes me feel safe in the community," Jimmy says. "We always discuss where we're going to go, which shopping centre and which car park to choose with the disability sticker. I feel confident with him."
That confidence has grown steadily. With Christian's support through our in-home and community program, Jimmy has found his footing – not just in public spaces, but in life.
"He's helped me get my independence," Jimmy says. "To go out, to be aware, to be part of things."
Christian agrees. "From day one, Jimmy was a bit anxious. But over time, I've really seen him grow. He's become more independent with grocery shopping and built confidence to speak with people from different shops."
Support that extends beyond outings
That support extends beyond social outings. Christian helped Jimmy build a structured plan to stay focused while working at Woolworths – a job Jimmy takes pride in.
"It helps me a lot," Jimmy says. "Because I have a disability, the routine keeps me on track."
There's more help at home, too. Kayla visits on Thursdays to support Jimmy with meal preparation – another step toward living independently. Together, they plan meals, shop for ingredients and cook with confidence.
Mutual gratitude
Jimmy's gratitude runs deep. "I really respect Wesley Mission. I appreciate hanging out with Christian. He's a really nice gentleman and I respect him so much."
For Christian, the impact is mutual. "Working with Jimmy has enriched not just his life, but mine as well. Supporting Jimmy has given me joy and fulfilment."
Christian's support isn't just about ticking off tasks. It's about building trust and sharing moments.
Because at the heart of it all, they're not just worker and client. They're mates. They're co-pilots. And yes, they're in this together.
About our disability services
Wesley Mission provides support for people living with disability, helping them build lives of independence, dignity and connection. We offer support at home and in the community, help with life skills and meaningful employment opportunities.
